Nobody asks for pain. Nobody signs up for heartbreak, loss, or hard seasons. But for Tiwangi Rochelle, those painful moments became the very blueprint for a future she never planned, yet was perfectly built to walk in.
Peggy Prescott
I missed birthdays, bedtime stories, and scraped knees. My girls were 8 and 5 when I left. Mothering behind bars broke me, but it also built me. I came home
to build a life with them in mind.
Tiwangi Rochelle grew up in a home marked by cycles of abuse and hardship. Her mother, a woman of strength navigating her own battles, raised Tiwangi and her siblings as best she could amidst difficult circumstances. Though Tiwangi and her mother shared a bond, the trauma surrounding their home created tension and pain that led Tiwangi to leave at an early age. She left behind two younger brothers and an older sister who had already stepped out to build a new life.
Alone and searching for belonging, Tiwangi found herself surrounded by older women who introduced her to street life. By 17, the streets became her family. At 18, she moved into her own apartment and soon began a fast-paced, volatile relationship with a man recently released from prison.
The allure of money, power, and status quickly pulled her into a dangerous world. Within a year, she gave birth to her first child and became immersed in the lifestyle that came with it — luxury cars, designer clothes, and a facade of success, all while enduring abuse that mirrored the trauma of her past.
As the years passed, Tiwangi opened two clothing boutiques and welcomed another daughter. Yet beneath the surface, she was battling to escape the very life that had trapped her. In an attempt to gain independence, she became entangled in drug trafficking and eventually faced serious legal consequences. Offered a 30-year sentence, the judge showed mercy, sentencing her to 5 years — 1,900 days behind bars.
Released on January 31, 2011, Tiwangi came home to a world that felt unfamiliar. Living in substandard conditions with her daughters, she took an $8-an-hour job at a car auction. But her spirit never wavered. Through faith, resilience, and a relentless desire to give back, she discovered a program that reignited her purpose.
That spark became the foundation for her nonprofit work.Today, Tiwangi consults and empowers founder-led organizations, teaches reentry and personal development courses to incarcerated women, and has helped hundreds of formerly incarcerated women find stable housing and new beginnings.
Her story is not just one of survival — it's one of transformation, restoration, and triumph after seasons of loss — and 1,900 ways of seeing God do wonders to restore.
ReUp was birthed in the darkest seasons of struggle — a response to pain, loss, and the need for a second chance. What started as a spark of hope in Tiwangi Rochelle’s heart became a movement for women searching for restoration and purpose beyond prison walls.
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